National Suicide prevention week 2015

9/12/2015 So ironic for me that National Suicide prevention week is Sept 8-14th 2015. It was 7 years ago today 09/12/08 about 1:00 in the afternoon. When overwhelmed by the fact I just lost my business that I always wanted and was very good at, would lose my home, owed family and friends tons of investment money that they all trusted me with, bank loans for the business, etc.. I was doing well for a long time. I could blame the economy, it was at the time the worst ever. Bad planning for the future, whatever. Finding out that out of all this I was going to lose my wife of 20 years, my family, they meant the world to me. She had no idea I knew what she was planning, her and my now ex mother in law that supposedly loved me so much and a nosy creepy old man neighbor across the street, but I knew. What would my 4 beautiful children have to go through, all these thoughts. Life had never been easy for me, but, who's life really is? I earned everything I had ever had. I worked my ass off for my family. And did it with respect and honesty always! However, this was huge. I wasn't depressed trying to run away from it, I was looking for a solution. To me, it was all about money. To all the people I owed money to, it was all about money. Did they really care about me, or was it that I was making them all money, so let's invest in the business. I'll never know that answer, and at this point in my life, I really don't give a fuck, or if I ever see any of them ever again, including my now current Ex wife, mother of my children. To this day feels I did this to her, instead of for her. She's the only person who feels this way. Whatever......, with the exception of this one family that I love dearly, the wife was the one that put it into perspective for me that day around noon as I was cutting my grass. She had come over to confront me ,to see if it was true. Did I really loose everything? Unfortunately they had invested in me as well and she was very close with my wife at the time. However, they are Christians and have told me since then they have forgiven me but, I never get to see them because I'm still so embarrassed. I was about 3 million in debt. I inquired about suicide clauses in my life insurance that I had on myself for my family and the business, sure enough, I was past the clause exceptions, Hmmm... I had three policies totaling over 6 million dollars. Hmmm... I don't want to die, I don't think anyone ever does, unless they are in extreme terminal pain that the inevitable is death and more comforting for them. I believe failed attempts at suicide are a cry out for help. Thank God the one's that fail and hopefully get help. I've always said, when you die it doesn't hurt you, it only hurts the people around you. Would my kids miss me? Of course! Would it fuck them up in the head for life? Hell yes! However, I was leaving plenty of money for therapy. ( That's a sick joke..... gotta have some sense of humor) My wife was leaving me so she didn't give a fuck, right? I said you know what, it's all about money, I was raised to take care of my family, I don't want to die , but here goes. I didn't want to blow my brains out and be a horrible mess for anyone to see, especially if one of the kids found me. I'll just die in my sleep. I even at one point a few weeks before mentioned it to my wife what I was thinking, at the time I don't think she cared or even heard what I said. She was in shock over everything cause I never involved her in anything in the business, just made her life as comfortable as I could and raising our 4 kids. Believe me she never complained about her life style Nice cars , home, country club etc.... So checking out it was. I left her a list of all the debt, wrote everything out in detail, who and what to pay. What to do with the future funds, etc.... Took a lethal dose of pills, went to sleep........ I thank God daily that my mother found me in time. A few more minutes, done! You can imagine the rest of the story. So as for the business, which I never expected, make a long sad fucked up story short, I go to jail for stealing from myself..Hmmmm. This story is even longer and no one except a few local lawyers and one or two good correctional officers know the truth and the bullshit they put me through, painting me a mobster, criminal, a fraud,etc... no one that doesn't know would never believe what I went through, blah, blah... I don't even want to relive that crap. Needless to say, I did lose everything, everything material that is , and I was right, a 20 year marriage... You want to know what? My life has turned out okay. I'm alive to tell this story right now. I'm 49 years old, in the best shape of my life and I get out of bed every morning. Every breathing moment is a blessing. Has it been tough with my children dealing with everything that happened? You have no fucking idea! But they will be fine one day. Was it tough going through all that alone? sure was, but again I get to wake up every morning and LIVE! I have been blessed with a new wife. The most incredible woman I've ever know. I love her with all my heart, and love her more and more everyday,thank you God for bringing her into my life. My story of suicide is different than most, most are really depressed, or something or someone they loved hurt them in a bad way, however, I'm here to tell you. No matter what has happened in your life, nothing is worse than not living another day. You can and will get through whatever your going through in time. It's taken me 7 years to talk publicly about this, and you know what? I don't give a fuck what people think. I did what I had to do for my family. That's what I thought seven years ago, that's what I still think today. No therapist or counselor will ever change my mind. I'll never forget when they locked me up for attempting suicide, before they let you go back to the real world. A judge in your county or state has to deem you mentally capable. ( News flash I'll never be mentally capable, joking) Anyway, the judge, I'll never forget told me "I don't condone what you did mister, but I understand" "You love your family". I thought that money would just make everything okay, they would miss me but move on. We all went through a lot. We still go through it today. However, we go through it. we are together. I have seen them grow. I see my Mom weekly, I asked God to send me an angel because I didn't want to be alone any longer and a few months later in 2013, I meet a wonderful woman that adores me and I adore her. God brought her into my life and she has been the greatest blessing. I live a great life without chasing the dime, wanting to have the biggest house, the nicest car, you learn to appreciate life!!!! LIFE!.... LIVING!..... Nothing is bad enough to take it away. When it's your time, on Gods time table, it's your time. It's for him to chose when it is, not you! I think I went through all the crap I did after the attempt because I didn't trust God and tried to end my life. He said you think that's tough, try this!!! I made it through!! Thank you God for letting me live another day. Everyday! Till you Lord, say it's time. Please, if your thinking about ending your life, talk to someone. Anyone. A stranger on the street might just be an angel that's there for you. Live life to the fullest. SJR...9/12/2015

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In 20 years of car buying experiences, this was by far the best overall experience. Our sales person, Sal Rigoroso, was the main factor in this. He was personable, very knowledgeable, and seemed genuinely interested in helping us get the car we wanted at the payments we needed. I had been interacting with him for 5 months via email and he always stayed in touch and followed up as he promised, and provided any information I asked for in a timely manner. We had an issue with the original car we selected and the payments due to our credit being lower than we had anticipated, and Sal was able to work through these issues, get us a car we love and get us approved in under an hour. So we thought perhaps we were not getting an explorer, and due to Sal's hard work, we left with a new explorer. He is truly one of the best overall salespeople I have ever encountered, not just in auto sales, but anywhere, and Ford and Summerville Ford are lucky to have him!

Jake Sunding reviewed in the last week Thank you Sal for the excellent customer service. Great car, ready to go, no pressure or sales tactics. Comfortable negotiation and hey, I bought the car. Thanks!

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The people at Summerville Ford definitely know how to make their customers have a great experience. We came in for our appointment and upon arrival, the car we were interested in was out front, ready to be test driven. When we came back, all of the paperwork was ready to be signed and any issues we had were addressed (above and beyond). Sal treated us like he's known us for years, and it made the whole process smooth and stress-free. I would highly recommend anyone looking to make a purchase to check out Summerville Ford.• • •

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reviewed in the last week I purchased a 2012 Infinity G37 from Summerville Ford from Sal Rigoroso. I've been shopping around from other dealerships and Sal was very quick to respond to my questions. The price for the car was great! Sal made the car purchasing process painless! The service after the sale has been great too. I would most definitely purchase another car from Summerville Ford. Steve G.

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Gail Vaskis reviewed 4 months ago Ever feel like you have had the experience of a life time? Well I did at Summerville Ford, with Sal Rigoroso! I went to see a Ford Fusion -- beautiful but coming from an SUV -- a Toyota Sequoia found I was not ready for a sedan. In looking around I saw the new Ford Explorer --- WOW what a gorgeous looking machine -- great lines -- sporty and classic at the same time! So of course I had to drive it ........ great driving machine. Hugs the road like a sports vehicle, roomy, safety features are tops. I was sold -- but I haul dogs so I needed all the floor space I could find and this Explorer had two bucket seats as the middle seat -- I needed a bench seat that would flip up. Sal came to the rescue -- He looked until he found there was an Explore on the a truck of vehicles that had just arrived. Sal gave me a great deal, no hassle, no pressure just great service and he really knows the Ford product -- very refreshing. My dealings with the rest of the staff at Summerville Ford was also enjoyable. Friendly and helpful. I will definitely go back --- Thanks again Summerville Ford and Sal!

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holli firstbrook reviewed 3 months ago we have been searching for the perfect van for our family for weeks and Sal Rigoroso was the man who found it for us and had us in in a day!!!! we are so happy with him!! everyone there was very nice and helpful!! but i am highly recommending Sal Rigoroso if you need any help!!!

Hugh Arendall reviewed a month ago I did a ton of research before I went to buy my used Mustang Convertible. Summerville Ford had the best price by far. When you go, ask for Sal. He was low pressure and straight forward. He'll work with you to get a fair deal. Also, they move you right through. I can usually plan on spending the day at the dealer when buying a car, but they moved me right through. I was approved for finance, test drove the car, negotiated my trade, went through financing, and was driving home in less than 3 hours

Mark Herrick reviewed 3 weeks ago *Everything* about my new car purchase at Summerville Ford was great. Sal Rigoroso (the Internet Sales Manager) not only responded to me *fast*, but also was extremely easy to work with - no strings, no hassles, no hard sells. After a couple of emails back and forth, I went in to see Sal, and our time together was smooth as silk. He explained every detail on my 2014 Ford Fiesta SE, walked me through the entire process (including my trade), and was extremely helpful, friendly, and honest *every step of the way*. I would highly recommend Summerville Ford, and especially Sal, if you're looking to buy a new Ford. No muss, no fuss, no hassles. Doesn't get much better. • • •

by holli from north Charleston sc | October 24, 2013 we where looking for about 3 weeks, we knew what we wanted and how much we could afford, we sent Sal Rigoroso an email and had a response right a way!!! 3 days later I am driving my van!!! he made it possible!!

by Scott Stevenson from Goose Creek, SC | January 18, 2014 I have worked with Sal Rigoroso two times on a new vehicle purchase. Each time the buying experience has been professional and comfortable. Sal is a veteran salesperson and knew the answer to almost every question we asked. We shopped around on both vehicles but bought from Summerville Ford both times I have no reservations recommending this dealership to anyone.

by The Royals from Charleston, SC | January 14, 2014 We have worked with Sal twice in 5 months and would do it again! He worked with us via email before we arrived to the dealership. We got a fair price for our trade and there was no high pressured sales tactics. Sal is the salesman you need!

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by Honest salesman!!! from Summerville, SC | February 4, 2014 Sal change my mind about car salesman at car dealerships. He was kind honest and made the process fast and easy. Everything he told me was true. NO RUNAROUND !!!! The business office and financing staff all made my experience smooth and stress free!!! I HIGHLY recommend Sal for your next purchase.